The LEI MODEL
applies to every theory in the community that works and brings it together
into one congruent system and one final answer.
W hy does a system
work for some people and a completely different system can get the same
results using a completely different approach? Each system out right now
(canned, natural, direct, indirect, social circle, lifestyle, hot game….)
hits a different level in the LEI MODEL. If you hit that
level hard enough, you will get a response and success with some women.
If you can hit all
3 levels, you will have an abundance of women in your life. Similar to
the way the best fighters are Mixed Martial Artists, the best PUAs will
develop all aspects of their lives and themselves and be able to do it
all at the right times.
How does Phase Shift
develop all 3 levels in you and take you to this level?
L.
Lifestyle
the habits, attitudes, tastes, economic level, etc., that together constitute
the mode of living of an individual or group.
Living a certain lifestyle
will attract some women into your life. Simply ignoring the fact that
men that are affluent or live a fun, exciting life get some women, is
ignoring a level of attraction regardless of how superficial or weak it
is.
Having an attractive
lifestyle hits a girl’s logic and is the weakest of the 3 levels
of attraction. She will logically want to join in the fun or think that
a man with a certain lifestyle can take care of her logical needs like
stability and finances.
How does Phase Shift
guide you in developing your lifestyle?
Build a Lifestyle
a) Building Your Social Circle
b) Win over managers, promoters
c) Surround yourself with women/social proof/pivots
d) Improve your surroundings, house and car
e) Balance your life, relationships, and career
f) Workout and improve your health/fitness/diet
g) Support your identity and style with your lifestyle
E. Evolve into a Natural
Learning to interact with women and hit their emotions to build attraction
is vital. For people with little social experience or experience with
relationships, it is oftentimes best to start canned to gain an understanding
of attraction and be able to develop their fundamentals. Eventually, it
is best to evolve into a natural in order to be more dynamic in adapting
to individual women and situations and grow as a person.
Many systems only
teach canned routines which will limit your personal growth and prevent
you from realizing your full potential both in yourself and your relationships.
Systems that only
teach natural is difficult for people with little or no social experience.
It is like saying, “Start at the end,” when people really
need to start at the beginning and build their fundamentals.
Build a foundation
a) Approach Anxiety
b) Overcoming Weaknesses
c) Low Value Targets vs. High Value Targets
d) Not Approaching
e) Control Your Internal Frame
f) Getting Into State
g) Inner Game
h) Eliminating Limiting Beliefs
i) Emotional Intelligence and control
j) Deal with past issues and trauma
k) Eliminate addictions
Build a Skillset
a) Finding a Wing
b) Basic Wing Logistics
c) Dealing with Men
d) Body Language and Logistics
e) Tonality
f) Standing Sets
g) Sitting Sets
h) Moving Sets
i) Mini-Time Constraints, False Time Constraints
j) Openers and Threads
i) Speer’s Recall and Mass Openers
ii) The Forced Opener
iii) Opinion Openers
iv) Tests / Playful Teasing
v) Storytelling
vi) Backhanded Compliments and Comments
vii) Situational / Observational
viii) Compliment Openers
ix) Questions
x) Role Play
xi) Cold Read
xii) Have Her Open You
xiii) Non-verbal Openers
xiv) Openers for Mixed Sets/Large Sets
xv) Direct
k) Knowing When the Set Is Hooked
l) Plowing Through
m) Stacking Openers
n) Logistics
o) i. How to Open on the Dance Floor
p) ii. Opening in the Gym
q) iii. Day game
r) VII. Showing Interest
s) VIII. Building a Connection
i) Personal Stories
ii) Common Interests
iii) Genuine Curiosity
t) Tactics and Techniques
i) Lock Yourself Into Set
ii) Isolation
iii) Physical Escalation
iv) Move Your Set
v) Give and Take
vi) Instant Value
u) Control Your External Frame
v) Getting Her Contact Information
w) Talking to Her on the Phone
x) Going on a Date
y) Becoming Intimate
z) Work Book and Missions
Convert to
Natural
a) Creating Your Own Openers
b) Build your style and Identity
c) Let go of canned routines and break rules
d) Create your own material
e) Freestyle sets
I.
Instinctual Game
Yes, celebrities have women in their life too. Learn to hit the triggers
that target a woman’s instincts.
Convert to
Hot Game
a) Gain exposure
b) Become High-value in your community and society
c) Live like a rock star
d) Network with and win over high-value/famous/important/connected/industry
people
e) Be the leader of your circle
f) Hot game
Every system out hits one of the 3 levels described above. If you develop
and learn to hit all 3, you will have the ultimate game.