Speer Method - The LEI System

The LEI Model

The LEI MODEL applies to every theory in the community that works and brings it together into one congruent system and one final answer.

Why does a system work for some people and a completely different system can get the same results using a completely different approach? Each system out right now (canned, natural, direct, indirect, social circle, lifestyle, hot game….) hits a different level in the LEI MODEL. If you hit that level hard enough, you will get a response and success with some women.

If you can hit all 3 levels, you will have an abundance of women in your life. Similar to the way the best fighters are Mixed Martial Artists, the best PUA's will develop all aspects of their lives and themselves and be able to do it all at the right times.

How does Phase Shift develop all 3 levels in you and take you to this level?

L. Life Style

The habits, attitudes, tastes, economic level, etc., that together constitute the mode of living of an individual or group.

Living a certain lifestyle will attract some women into your life. Simply ignoring the fact that men that are affluent or live a fun, exciting life get some women, is ignoring a level of attraction regardless of how superficial or weak it is.

Having an attractive lifestyle hits a girl’s logic and is the weakest of the 3 levels of attraction. She will logically want to join in the fun or think that a man with a certain lifestyle can take care of her logical needs like stability and finances.

How does Phase Shift guide you in developing your lifestyle?

Build a Lifestyle

a) Building Your Social Circle
b) Win over managers, promoters
c) Surround yourself with women/social proof/pivots
d) Improve your surroundings, house and car
e) Balance your life, relationships, and career
f) Workout and improve your health/fitness/diet
g) Support your identity and style with your lifestyle

E. Evolve into Natural

Learning to interact with women and hit their emotions to build attraction is vital. For people with little social experience or experience with relationships, it is oftentimes best to start canned to gain an understanding of attraction and be able to develop their fundamentals. Eventually, it is best to evolve into a natural in order to be more dynamic in adapting to individual women and situations and grow as a person.

Many systems only teach canned routines which will limit your personal growth and prevent you from realizing your full potential both in yourself and your relationships.

Systems that only teach natural is difficult for people with little or no social experience. It is like saying, “Start at the end,” when people really need to start at the beginning and build their fundamentals.

Build a foundation

a) Approach Anxiety
b) Overcoming Weaknesses
c) Low Value Targets vs. High Value Targets
d) Not Approaching
e) Control Your Internal Frame
f) Getting Into State
g) Inner Game
h) Eliminating Limiting Beliefs
i) Emotional Intelligence and control
j) Deal with past issues and trauma
k) Eliminate addictions

Build a Skill set

a) Finding a Wing
b) Basic Wing Logistics
c) Dealing with Men
d) Body Language and Logistics
e) Tonality
f) Standing Sets
g) Sitting Sets
h) Moving Sets
i) Mini-Time Constraints, False Time Constraints
j) Openers and Threads
i) Speer’s Recall and Mass Openers
ii) The Forced Opener
iii) Opinion Openers
iv) Tests / Playful Teasing
v) Storytelling
vi) Backhanded Compliments and Comments
vii) Situational / Observational
viii) Compliment Openers
ix) Questions
x) Role Play
xi) Cold Read
xii) Have Her Open You
xiii) Non-verbal Openers
xiv) Openers for Mixed Sets/Large Sets
xv) Direct
k) Knowing When the Set Is Hooked
l) Plowing Through
m) Stacking Openers
n) Logistics
o) i. How to Open on the Dance Floor
p) ii. Opening in the Gym
q) iii. Day game
r) VII. Showing Interest
s) VIII. Building a Connection
i) Personal Stories
ii) Common Interests
iii) Genuine Curiosity
t) Tactics and Techniques
i) Lock Yourself Into Set
ii) Isolation
iii) Physical Escalation
iv) Move Your Set
v) Give and Take
vi) Instant Value
u) Control Your External Frame
v) Getting Her Contact Information
w) Talking to Her on the Phone
x) Going on a Date
y) Becoming Intimate
z) Work Book and Missions

Convert to Natural

a) Creating Your Own Openers
b) Build your style and Identity
c) Let go of canned routines and break rules
d) Create your own material
e) Freestyle sets

I. Instinctual Game

Yes, celebrities have women in their life too. Learn to hit the triggers that target a woman's instincts.

Lifestyle Mastery

a) Gain exposure
b) Become High-value in your community and society
c) Live like a rock star
d) Network with and win over high-value/famous/important/connected/industry people
e) Be the leader of your circle
f) Hot game